
As part of our small living journey we have left ourselves an "out" by keeping the old place while we transition into the small space. I have been floating between two places having the security of an extra 2000 square feet to house all the "stuff". Finally got rid of all the stuff. And I do mean stuff. I must have had 4 different pairs of pink tennis shoes, 30 small white frames from IKEA, every manual of every piece of electronic equipment I have ever owned, and 4 sets of dishes. It became so overwhelming I ditched the idea of having a sale and had my handy man Gilbert come over. I said "Gilbert, please make it all go away, I do not care where it goes, make it gone." Next thing I knew there was 3 generations of the Rodriguez family thrilled to be carrying away my extra stuff. I was immediately relieved that I wasn't contributing to some land fill somewhere. I wanted the stuff to be used, I just became overwhelmed with trying to place it in the right home. I have had the old place repainted and cleaned and it is ready to rent. The question is, am I ready to close the door to moving back? YES. Door close please, I am ready. I began to feel the stuff suffocating me. I found things I had been keeping because I was told that it was some family member that died that I didn't know and therefore had to be kept. Why am I the keeper of garage sale crap of decades past? My new policy, once something has been giving to me, I will not feel obligated to house it if it does not fit in my life. If someone gives you a fruit cake are you obligated to eat it? The leasing company has been called and final decision has been made.
Good for you, you can always move back - nothing is final.
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